How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 16.06.2025 15:44
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Making more friends is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
What do you think of casting Emma Watson as the next James Bond?
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
When does a woman know she is cumming?
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What does 'Whose flesh is like the flesh of donkeys’ mean (Ezekiel 23:20)?
That's it for today.
Living to your full potential is a goal.
How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Why am I sweating so much at night even though my room is really cold?
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Do you have any fantasies you are ashamed of?
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
Hangs out with loser friends.
What was your most memorable experience catching a fraudulent car seller?
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Do not set goals—set systems.
What should I do if I love someone who does not love me?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Procrastinates a lot.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
Why am I so tired of seeing homeless people all over the place?
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
What are "the new net zero jobs of tomorrow" that SNP's Stephen Flynn says his party would create?
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Ask yourself:
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
What I need from you?
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Does not procrastinate.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.